How To Become A Better Singer And Change Negative Thoughts About Your Singing
Apr 06, 2021
Do you have negative thoughts about your singing?
Maybe you…
...Were told that you'd never be a great singer
...Constantly worry about how you sound
...Were told that you are out of tune when you sing
...That you need to work on your pronunciation
If you are having these thoughts, you are not alone!
All of these thoughts floating around in your head from yourself, our culture, and other people are not helping you to improve your singing, in fact, they are holding you back.
So how DO we get over those negative thoughts about our singing? That, and how to become a better singer overall, are exactly what we are going to go through here!
I'll show you the exact process that I use to help singers discover how to become a better singer, going from worried about how you sound to confident and in control of your voice with this free training > https://www.starsinger.co/singnow
How To Become A Better Singer - What does it mean to sound “good”?
One of the biggest mistakes that singers make is that they want to make a deep, emotional connection through their singing, but they spend so much time worrying if they sound good and worrying about how to become a better singer.
But what does it even mean to sound good? What is your end goal?
“Sounding good” is objective, and worrying about it can create a lot of problems! But don’t worry - this is totally normal!
When you get up to begin your performance, what is your brain saying to you?
You're probably thinking…
...Am I good enough?
...Do they think I sound good?
...I forgot to breathe there!
...Ugh, that high note sounded awful
...I forgot the words!
...Am I in tune?
Performance situations can trigger a fight or flight response in your brain and pump up your adrenaline and energy, causing these thoughts to hit you at lightning speed.
But imagine if you went to a performance and you weren’t worried about these things. Imagine you are happy, comfortable, excited, in control, confident, relaxed….
Now imagine if after that performance you feel PROUD. Wouldn’t that be great? We all want to sound great, but that doesn’t mean that we should spend our entire performance worrying about how we sound.
So, how DO we know if we sound good?
Sounding good is about developing your most natural, efficient, free voice. Your voice is at its best and sounds great when you are comfortable and in control of your voice, and it FEELS good.
If you are evaluating your singing just by how it sounds, you are missing out! Singing, when done correctly, feels good, comfortable, and powerful. So many singers waste so much time on sounding good, so I am encouraging you to think about how it feels in your body when you sing.
So, how do you change these thoughts? You need to develop your natural and free voice.
